All human beings have a thirst for love and friendship: everyone likes to be loved. The heart of the human lives from this. A person that is not loved by anyone, it is considered alone and abandoned, sad and depressed. Dear Madam, your husband also test the same feelings, he wants love and tenderness. Before her marriage, her parents met this need, but now that you are united by marriage and he has put at your disposal, he expects that the affection from parents, now both you and give it to you love him by heart. Your husband has broken its bonds of friendship to join you and now wants you to love him as his friends loved him. Your husband committed day and night for your well-being. He shares with you the difficulties of life and a true friend cares about your happiness, even more than the your parents. So show them your appreciation and love him, so he will love you. Love is a relationship that joins two hearts. If love is reciprocal, reinforcing the foundations of marriage and avoids the danger of separation.
not be fair if your husband is in love with you at first sight, because this love is everlasting. If you want to love hard, you have to continually show your affection. If you love your husband and establish a good relationship with him, he will be happy and willing to commit and sacrifice, to the extent possible, for your well-being and for his family and successfully achieve its objectives. A man who knows he is loved by his wife, raramente soffrirà di malattie emotive.
Cara signora, se tuo marito sa che non lo ami, si scoraggerà, non proverà più interesse per la propria vita e il suo lavoro, soffrirà di malattie psicologiche, si allontanerà da casa e dalla vita familiare, trascorrerà molto tempo fuori di casa in cerca di amici e attenzioni e, magari, troverà rifugio in luoghi immorali. Egli penserà: “Perché dovrei darmi da fare per mantenere chi non mi ama. Sarà meglio che mi diverta e mi cerchi dei veri amici”.
Cara signora, può darsi che tu ami sinceramente tuo marito, ma ciò non basta, devi mostrarglielo con le parole e i fatti. Che male c’è se ogni tanto gli dici che lo ami, o if when he returns from a trip, greets him with a gift and tell him that you miss? If you are away on a trip, write them that you are missing. If it comes back later than usual, tell him you were worried about him. In his absence, praise him in front of friends and relatives and Defend if someone speaks ill of him. More show him your love, more s'interesserà you and the result will be that will strengthen your bond and you have a happier family.
Allah the Almighty, the Holy Quran has referred to the affection between husband and wife and describes it as a sign of His power:
"And among His signs is that He created you, for you, wives, so rest in them, and has set between you love and tenderness. Here indeed are signs for those who reflect . "(30:21)
Imam Ridha (as) said: " Some women are the best blessing for their husbands, women who show their love and their affection. " (Mustradak, vol.. 2, page 532)
The Holy Prophet (saw) said: "The best of your women are those who have love and tenderness." (Bihar Al Anwar vol. 103, p. 235.)
said Imam Sadiq (as): "When you love somebody, let them know." (Bihar Al Anwar vol.74, p.. 181)
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