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The duties of women (4): Respect for her husband

The desire for respect is innate, but not everyone is prepared to show respect towards others. Your husband comes in contact with all sorts of people during the day while away from home: some may be rude, insulting and hurting so his personality. As a wife, he expects home, you show him respect and encourage him to give him up morale.
Honoring the husband is not a humiliation, but instead gives him strength and ability, and prepares the efforts and struggle for a better life.
Dear lady, you should always greet him with respect. Do not interrupt him when he speaks. Be polite when you speak and do not raise your voice. If you go along to a meeting, let him go first. Praise him in the presence of others. Teach your kids to respect it, and if they are rude to him, correct him. Respect it in front of guests and take care of them and him too, if not more. Never be a call that you take care of the guests only, neglecting your husband. When he returns home, Aprigliano the door with a smile and a happy expression on his face. You know that this very small gesture, can positively affect their morale? Some women may think that this behavior is strange. Imagine your husband to greet and welcome it as a host, what's wrong? Your husband has been out all day for the welfare of the family, so you deserve consideration and respect when he returns home. That greeting will make a good first impression and what's good for a host, it's good enough for their family members.
not think that because there is intimacy between you, he does not expect you to respect it, on the contrary, you still want it more. Dear lady, if you respect your husband, he will respect you and everything will strengthen your marriage.
The Prophet of Allah (saw) said: "The duty of women is to accept her husband at the door and welcome him." (Mustadrak, vol.. 3, page 551)
Imam Sadiq (as) said: "Every woman who respects her husband and not the torture, will be lucky and happy" . (Bihar al-Anwar, vol. 103, p.. 253)
Be careful not to humiliate, not to speak to him harshly, not to abuse, and not turn to him with obscene epithets. If you offend him, he in turn insult you. In the end, love e la fiducia si corroderanno e avrete un susseguirsi di litigi e discussioni che potrebbero portare a un divorzio. Anche se continuerete a vivere insieme, le vostre vite saranno di sicuro costellate di brutti momenti. Potranno sorgere disturbi psicologi al punto che la convivenza della coppia potrebbe essere in pericolo, poiché potrebbe commettere dei reati.
Le seguenti storie, tratte da un giornale iraniano, illustrano quanto detto:
“Un uomo di ventidue anni ha ucciso la moglie diciannovenne, inferendole quindici coltellate poiché lei lo insultava chiamandolo asino cieco. In tribunale il marito disse: ‘Ci siamo sposati un anno fa. All’inizio mi voleva molto bene, ma ben presto cambiò atteggiamento e cominciò a umiliarmi. He used foul language against me on every occasion and for the smallest matter, made fun of me. Since my left eye is squinting, call me blind donkey '. The day of the tragedy she called him and he was furious with that call so that the hit with fifteen stab wounds. " (Ettela'at no. 13787)
"settantun'anni A man who killed his wife to explain why the murder said: 'Suddenly, his behavior towards me changed and began to ignore me. Once he called me old unbearable, thus proving to love me. I began to suspect she and killed two with an ax '. " (Ettela'at nr.13652)