a wife's job is to take care of her husband is not an easy task. Women who ignore this aspect of their role, may have difficulty. It is a commitment for people who are aware that this task requires a degree of subtlety, style and wit. To be appreciated, a wife should win the heart of her husband and be his support. Should encourage him to do good deeds and dissuade him from evil. Should take care of his health and his wellbeing. His efforts should be directed to ensure that the husband becomes a human being polite and respectable, so that it can be the best tutor for his family and the best father and guide their children. Omniscient Allah has endowed the woman of extraordinary power. The prosperity and happiness, as well as the unhappiness of the family are in his hands. A woman can turn the house into a perfect paradise or hell hot. Her husband can lead to peaks of success or do sink into the abyss of misfortune. If the wife knows the art of taking care of her husband and puts into practice the duties which God has assigned, can transform an ordinary man, or perhaps an unworthy man, in a respectable and worthy husband.
One student wrote: "Women have a strange power: they can get what want ". (Dar Aghushe Khushbakhti page. 142)
Islam, focusing on their husband is so important, that has been compared to the jihad. Imam Ali (as) said:
"The jihad of women is to treat her husband well." (Nahjul ruling Balaghah 136)
If you consider that the jihad is the struggle and holy war in the way of Allah, the struggle for progress and honor of Islam, the defense of Islamic lands and the realization of social justice, and therefore one of the highest acts of worship, it becomes clear the value of taking care of her husband.
The Prophet of Allah said:
"Every woman che muoia mentre suo marito รจ soddisfatto di lei, entra in Paradiso”. (Mahajjat al-Baydha), vol. 2, pag 70.
“Una donna che non adempie i suoi doveri di moglie, non ha adempiuto i suoi doveri verso Allah”. (Mustadrak, vol 2, pag. 552)
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