The daughter of the Guide of the Islamic community is sitting in a room, while her future husband and his father are talking about the mahr. In the past, many rich men had come to ask for her hand. He still remembers his mother who had spent all her wealth for the spread of Islam.
She knows that her future husband does not have many good things of this world. He knows that the mahr is a way in which man shows his affection for his wife and must be such that when the wife demands it, he has the opportunity of donarglielo.
The husband said to the Prophet (s) What are the possessions and he ordered him to sell part with it and buy what they need for the preparation of their marriage.
Now the girl has to say what he thinks of her mahr. She, turning to his noble father, he says: "The other young mahr consists of money or worldly goods, I want my to be different: I want my mahr is the intercession for the transgressors of the Islamic Ummah on the Day of Findings. "
Young!
Be honest in saying what are your economic possibilities, do not make promises you can not keep!
Girls!
Cercate la semplicità, ché la felicità è nascosta in essa!
Mamme e papà!
Chiedere un mahr molto alto non ha mai garantito la felicità di nessuno. Un mahr superiore a quelle che sono le possibilità economiche del futuro sposo, è la sua prima bugia a vostra figlia e il primo modo in cui tradisce la vostra fiducia. Non costringetelo a mentire e tradirvi!
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